A great game to start a conversation and to know about an individual’s personality is the 21 questions game. The game is pretty simple and straight forward.


Why to Play 21 Questions Game

You can ask a person 21 questions and the person must answer them as truthfully as possible. There is no limit to the type of question game questions you can ask. While many may believe that 21 questions alone can’t simply be enough to know a lot about a person, but in reality the amount of questions are more than enough if the questions are selected wisely. The main reason for the game’s popularity is that it transcends age and gender, and presents a wonderful platform to know everything about a person you know very little. From people who have just met to friends that have known each other for quite some time, the game can be surprisingly informative for everyone.

The questions that you should select for the 21 questions game should be related to the kind of conversation you want the game to lead to. By deciding whether you want to have some fun or want to understand the other person deeply, you would make your job of selecting the questions for the questions game rather easy.


Questions to Ask a Guy/Girl for 21 Questions Game

If you want to better understand the other person and want to know about his/her personality and preferences, the question game questions you should ask are:

  1. What type of TV shows, books and movies interest you the most? Why?

  2. What was the best thing that you enjoyed and what was the best thing that you hated about school life?

  3. If you were given a choice between your hometown and living somewhere else, would you leave your hometown forever or stay in your hometown forever?

  4. If you are in a situation where you are very dirty, extremely tired and very hungry, would you eat, take a nap or take a shower first?

  5. What is the thing that you think is overrated (secretly) but that is loved by everybody else? Why is that the case?

  6. When scrolling through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, do you prefer posts from celebrities that you have never actually met or from your best friends?

  7. What would you like: someone gives all of your classmates $10 each or just gives you $100?

  8. Would you prefer getting an entire month off from college/school (with no homework) with the caveat that you won’t be able to get in touch with your friends for that period or would you prefer school for one more month (with homework) with the condition that your friends would come too?

  9. Would you prefer an internship where your boss is pretty cool and keeps praising you but where you don’t get any real experience or an internship where the boss is a total hard-ass who never compliments you but where you gain a lot of knowledge?

  10. If you get the power to turn into anyone you want (can be living or dead) for one day, which person will you choose? Why?

  11. What are the top 5 things on your wish-list?

  12. What is the dirtiest and biggest lie that has come out of your mouth? In what situation?

  13. If I told you that this is going to be your last day in this world, how do you think you will spend it?

  14. What is the one thing in which you simply can’t stand failing?

  15. Have you deliberately broken anyone’s heart?

  16. Name one movie which you can watch again and again and again?

  17. If you were to make dinner for me, what would you prepare?

  18. Has anyone ever broken your heart? How?

  19. What would be the first thing that you would buy yourself with your own hard-earned money?

  20. Name one quality for which you want people to remember you?

  21. What happened on your first date?


Dirty Questions for 21 Questions Game

If you want to have fun, want to explore the other person’s sexier side and want the game to lead to something funny and sexy, these are the questions for the question game that you can select:

  1. Is there anyone who saw you naked accidentally? What was their reaction?

  2. What was your age when you shared your first French kiss? Was it any good?

  3. If we got really drunk, do you think we would end up doing something really funny?

  4. What is your opinion about sexting? Have you ever done it?

  5. Did anyone ever catch you when you were masturbating or playing with yourself? What was the reaction?

  6. How do you define ordinary sex and making love? What’s the difference?

  7. What’s your opinion about your kissing abilities?

  8. When did you lose your virginity? If you could go back in time, would you change that?

  9. How do you feel about the concept of exciting foreplay?

  10. Has your partner ever laughed at you when he/she saw you naked for the first time?

  11. What is the biggest turn on for you?

  12. Name the strangest place where you have had sex?

  13. What do you like most about the opposite gender (physically)?

  14. What is your greatest sexual fantasy?

  15. What do you wear while going to bed?

  16. If you get the chance to take off only one part of the attire I am currently wearing, which part would you take off? Why?

  17. Name the kinkiest request you have ever got from your partner? Did you oblige?

  18. Do you enjoy talking dirty or naughty?

  19. Are you wearing any underclothes right now?

  20. What were your feelings when you had sexual intercourse for the first time?

  21. Have you ever sexually fantasized about me? Ask the details.


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    dis b gr8
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  • soniaOct.17 23:24
    @ : lol m8
  • I can't bieleve these helped me get Stacy from Christian mingle to visit me often
  • soniaFeb.11 09:54
    these questions got me a husband
  • SarahDec.22 06:14
    Omg this totally worked to get my crush he usually talked dirty and he told me when i was talking to him, asking him these questions and it worked on him he had invited me to his apartment thanks to you 2 weeks ago I had the best day of my life.
  • Datdiva12Nov.28 13:29
    Some people do these things to impress there partner. Im only 13 and i've done most of these things.
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