Many girls wonder what their “first time” will be like. What will it feel like? Will I do the right things? Do you bleed when you have sex? Will it hurt? Many girls have questions that are tough to ask, because they might be embarrassed. Fortunately, the answers are pretty straightforward. Here is what a girl can expect from the first time.

Do Girls Bleed in First Time Sex?

Every person’s body is unique, and the way it reacts is unique, too. Some girls might have heard that they will bleed during their first intercourse. For some girls, that might be true – but for others, there might not be any blood at all. Why the big difference from one girl to another?

It’s because of something called the hymen. The hymen is a thin layer of protective skin inside the vagina. Some girls are born with a full hymen that covers the vaginal opening completely; other girls are born with a partial hymen, or even none at all. But even if there is a full hymen at birth, it often tears long before a girl has intercourse. The tearing can happen through rigorous sports, or even from inserting tampons. Once the hymen tears, it doesn’t grow back.

That’s why some women feel a bit of pain and have a bit of bleeding during intercourse – because their hymen breaks. But for some girls, there might be no pain, only bleeding. For other girls, there might be no sign of a hymen at all.

Sometimes a woman will break her hymen herself during masturbation, especially if she inserts something into the vagina. Even her fingers can break through the hymen. It is very important to remember that with all the potential ways a hymen can break, the lack of bleeding during first intercourse is no proof that a girl is a virgin.

Here we explain what bleeding after losing virginity is like.

Example and Experience

“Do girls bleed during first intercourse? I always wondered that, and I think I got my answer through my sister. When she was about twelve, she went on a horseback riding trail with the rest of our family. We went through some serious underbrush and it was hard riding to get through it. When we came out, she was bleeding so much that it was all over her saddle. She didn’t feel a thing. As you might imagine, my mother freaked right out!

But it turned out that her hymen had broken. She was just riding a horse! She never had any pain. Years later when she had a long-term boyfriend, she confided in me that when they first had sex, she didn’t bleed or feel any pain, and she knew it was because of that day horseback riding when she was twelve.

So do girls bleed during first intercourse? It really depends on what happened before they decide to have sex. Just ask my sister!”

Want to learn more about the hymen and the question, “Do girls bleed during first intercourse?” as well as other frequently asked questions about bleeding and virginity, click here.


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  • DineshNov.25 12:55
    my [email protected] you have will replyed to my mail. sex is as relation. relation is two member. member is young or near 18 years. during the sex, first time bleed but this not surety. which many time to girl is change of body. vagina parts is change to time for time. so intercourse, some girls are bleed. but intercourse is must of the all girl and after intercourse girl is happy and very happy. what is the cause. all girl are must of sex. sex is change of labour. labour is very important.
  • Janine Oct.24 04:20
    I'll start with this: I had the idea based on what I had read that the Hyman had a slight cycst shape and that it would rupture. But then when I read more about it, I found many opinions out there. So when I approached my weddingvnught and had sex with my husband, I did bleed, but very little. It wasn't like bleeding from a period. We laid a towel on the bed and there some light red/pink spots and that was it. I believe there is more of a mess from personal and added lubricant than blood.
  • Anonymous Sep.27 13:21
    So me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex but it's our first time and I'm freaking out about bleeding and I don't want to make it awkward. I have read that physically strenuous activities such as horse back riding and gymnastics could tear or wear the hymen and I've done gymnastics for about ten years, is that a good thing? Does it mean that I won't bleed on the first time?
  • Mother HenOct.7 05:58
    @ : You won't know until you try! But seriously, I doubt you have torn your hymen during gymnastics. I used to be very athletic and my hymen remained intact, even after years of competitive track and field, and cycling. AND IF you do bleed, it will only be a drop or two. P.S. Use a condom.
  • BoxheadSep.19 12:26
    she would bleed and cry from my monster cock
  • Phuque InyerassSep.17 13:48
    Are the other three people listed here total bloody a??holes?
  • 01/27/16May.12 02:13
    Will i be gay to
  • BobniggaMay.12 02:10
    If i have sex with my gay fiend with i bleed forn my dick
  • Emmanuella OwusuMar.7 21:51
    I had my first sex with my guy but there was no blood that oozed out....I'm totally confuse...please help me.
  • @ : It's cause some girls do bleed and some don't and some times it oozes out but some times not ok.
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