Hymen is a tissue which is present around the vaginal opening and in turn has an opening in it, which allows the menstrual fluid to pass out of the body. The hymen has been long associated with virginity, as it usually ruptures or breaks during sexual intercourse. The term losing one’s virginity is also referred to as ‘cherry popped’ in slang. There are however various conditions where the hymen might break without sex. Does fingering break hymen or can you break your hymen while getting fingered are very common queries.

Here in this article we will answer the question: “can fingering break hymen?” and other activities that might cause it.

Does Fingering Break Hymen?

The hymen tissue is a little stretchy and when you finger yourself or your partner fingers you, the hymen can stretch or break. When the hymen breaks, it can cause a little bit of pain and bleeding.

Inserting any object in the vagina, like a finger can cause this to happen. Also when a woman is involved in sports like gymnastics, horseback riding, it can break the hymen. It can also break during an intense workout session, during which the pain might be felt. If there is spotting after a day of strenuous physical activity and it is not your periods, it could be because of the hymen rupturing.

Once the hymen breaks, there is usually no pain or bleeding in any subsequent session of intercourse. Although it is painful the first time, the pain is not excruciating. If it does get worse, you or your partner can stop the activity.

Tips and Notes for Fingering

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It is wrong to associate presence of hymen with virginity, which is a belief still followed by some people and cultures. Indulging in sexual intercourse makes a woman lose her virginity and the hymen is not related to it. The hymen could easily be ruptured when a finger or even a tampon is inserted into the vagina. Participating in sports or even riding a bicycle can cause the hymen to break. Some girls are born with little or no hymenal tissue.

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Fingering should not be indulged in, if it is not comfortable. People usually try it because of the G spot, however, it does not help much if you are not properly aroused. Clitoris massage should be tried instead.

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Fingering by you or your partner should be done with hygiene in mind. It is important that the hands are washed with unscented soap before fingering you. This is to ensure that no irritants or microbes enter the vagina, as they can cause irritation or infection.

Other People’s Experience

Every girl has a different type of hymen, it could be thin or thick and could be painful when broken or there might be no pain at all. However, the answer to does fingering break hymen is yes. I and my boyfriend were fooling around and he was fingering me a couple of times. He would go in too deep sometimes and I would make him stop when it hurt. This happened to us a couple of times. One day he was fingering me and I did not feel any pain and I thought maybe I got used to it. But when he pulled out he noticed blood on his fingers and that’s when I realized he had popped my cherry.

When we did have sex for the first time, there was no resistance or pain that I felt, much like feeling I had done it before. So does fingering break hymen, yes it does. And important to remember is that some girls are just born without it.

You can find more questions about losing virginity and it feels here.

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  • priyaDec.1 09:39
    hey plz ans me i had masturbrate wid my brush lil bit bloods comes out fo it means i lost my virginity
  • BuggzieNov.15 22:23
    Hi. I've been fingered several times, however the last time I did it, there was blood and a numb feeling. All the other times it hurted a bit, but now I'm worried about the blood in my last experience. Should I be?
  • NeelamNov.11 16:33
    Hello I am 18 I didnt have sex with my boyfriend but he did fingering and i dont know that my hymen is broken or not We did this around 7 date amd my periods date is 21 i have not taken I pill yet after his fingering I would be getting periods or not ?
  • AashOct.20 01:55
    I want to ask a qst I have fingering in vigina last time I have a blood on my finger but I feel no pain Now I,m worried is my hymen break or not? If it is then what I can do because after marriage may be I have problem from my husband due to this
  • MaryamOct.19 20:23
    Hi i m 22years old my boyfrnd fingering me so hard that i feel pain and bleeding come out ...m so worried now plz tell me is my hymen break?and was i m no more virgin?
  • lipsOct.8 07:01
    hello !!i have a question .. may the haymen broke by fingering about 2 time .. and what if I fingered last night but it didnt pain nor bleed
  • harinAug.25 18:19
    Hello , Me and my husband trying sex for long time but my hymen is thick so we are not able to make. Now someone suggest me to do fingering or put some object or toy. I am going to try ,is it fine?
  • sweetieAug.15 00:56
    Hello , i would like ask.that i have put my finger in vigina for too.many times and it also bleeds.alot whem.i was 14.before i never knw about breaking.of hymen and now im.18 im going to get marraige in.1 years time so im.worried is my hymen.break or not ... if i take.some.pills.to tight my vigina.will it bleed in my first night
  • YulissaAug.3 03:29
    Is it normal if ur still bleeding just a little bit after a day or 2 ago ?
  • sonaMay.24 08:53
    hello i m sona plzz tell me mere partner n meri leggi ke upr se pussy ko touch kiya nd i feel little pain nd leggi ke upr se finger se pussy pr touch kiya den what does it mean plzz tell me??
  • ShanJul.29 21:30
    @ : sona do not worry but one thing is follow during first night with your husband, i will let you know once you will reply for ask
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