Understanding the message that a woman is trying to send you is hard, even in a direct conversation. That means figuring what a woman actually thinks about you in an informal situation, such as a date, can be almost impossible.

10 Ways to Tell If a Girl Likes You

Here are a few behavior patterns that can indicate if a girl likes you or is simply being polite to you. But you need to be real careful when you start reading the messages girls send you because it’s real easy to get confused. A lot of guys end up confusing a woman by trying to be polite or courteous with one who actually likes them. For example, a lot of women hug all male acquaintances as a matter of simple courtesy.

She actually reaches over and touches you. Women like to demonstrate affection or interest through physical contact, such as hugs. One of the main ways a woman will demonstrate affection is to touch you. The touch can be anything from a simple nudge to a full-fledged hug because every woman is different. 

She becomes playful and flirtatious. If a girl suddenly starts acting like your playmate, wanting to share in your activities and laughing at your jokes, she is interested in you. 

She becomes thoughtful and starts doing things for you. If a woman starts doing things like cooking meals, buying you presents or helping out around your place, she is definitely interested in you.

She tries to hide her emotions and thoughts to protect your feelings. If a woman starts going out of her way not to offend you, she definitely likes you. This can be something as simple as not getting angry or trying not to criticize you. 

She starts staring at you all the time. If a girl starts going out of her way to look at you, she’s definitely interested in you. If she tries to hide the fact she’s looking at you, that’s even a better sign.

She goes out of her way to be around you. If you start running into a woman at places like the store or your favorite restaurant, she is trying to be near you.

She starts talking about you to her girlfriends. If a woman becomes embarrassed when she sees you watching her with her friends, that’s a sign she’s interested in you and talking about you.

She likes to ask you for help. It’s natural that kids in your class come to you, asking about homework or tests if you are a good student; however, if a girl ask you a question which could be easily answered, it probably means she’s into you and wants to spend more time with you. Keep an eye on that!

She starts asking you about the other women in your life. If a girl starts asking about your girlfriend, former girlfriends, ex-wives, mother, sisters, etc., she’s definitely trying to learn more about you because she’s interested. 

She gets upset when you ignore or neglect her. If she gets mad when you cannot make a date or do not return a call, she is definitely interested in you. 

A video that can help. If you’re still confused about women, check out this short and very entertaining video which offers some interesting advice that can help you tell which girl is actually interested in you.


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  • HAMojJul.7 13:13
    I have this secret admirer ear and every time one of friends bring her up as I like her I try to cover it up but I'm 65% that she likes me because I always catch her looking at me and one time we were put sat next to each other she went in this weird voice that I found was very interesting (weird)
  • Dakota reddDec.6 07:11
    We have been friends for 2 years and we were at a dance and we danced and talked a lot and I asked her if she wanted to go on a date and she said yes does that mean she likes me or just being a friend and I know this may make me sound dumb
  • AndrewNov.16 23:30
    I like this girl and she does everything she asks me questions,do me favors,but should I ask her because this is the last year seeing her
  • AndrewNov.14 00:43
    I really like this girl she always punches me in the arm and laughs at my jokes,and always talks To me but she has a bf I don't know if she likes es me
  • ChrisNov.13 17:09
    Okay so I really like this girl and I don't really know if she also has feelings for me too. Well one time while texting she told me that she was going to have a presentation at some place, so I told her that I would be there to see her presentation, then she told me that it would make her more nervous. And she is the one that sometimes starts to text me and I can tell that she just wants to start a conversation with me. But man I really like her.
  • MalikNov.13 08:34
    theres this girl that always looks at me and she always sits be me in class
  • Jack Nov.12 10:49
    Ok so I've liked this girl for a really long time now and tried to hide it a little. We are into a lot of the same stuff and we get along pretty well. I know this probably means I'm getting friendzoned but I've known her a long time and she certainly doesn't dislike me at all. Please help I'm really into her and want to know if I at least have a shot with her. Also other guys reckon she's into me but i don't Beleive them when their reasons are as dumb as her drinking from my water bottle. Thanks
  • EliNov.3 01:03
    What if a girl about a year older than me hugs me about every time I see her
  • EddwarrdNov.1 22:06
    Ok so I'm really interested in this girl at my school and she always be touching me and I saw her almost every day, I ask her "Do you like me?" She replied no. So this confused me!
  • JuanNov.1 20:15
    Ok what if you catch her looking at you sometimes in class(btw she sits next to me) and i ask her for help sometimes and she helps me she also sometimes asks questions about my football team?
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