Women usually know when they are being flirted with, but this is not always the case. Men, like women, also send subtle signs that are actually methods of flirting. So how do you know whether a man is flirting with you or not? You need to pay attention to what he does and says. Some men are actually shy and often have trouble expressing their feelings for women. This often happens when they really like the woman. But sometimes, especially in the workplace, women mistake a guy being nice to flirting. So, how to know if he's flirting or just being nice?

Signs He's Flirting at Work


Notice His Smile

Does he smile at you with a glow in his eyes? Does he do it often? There is a chance that he’s actually into you. Some men smile with their mouth closed while others smile with their teeth.


He Treats You Specially

Does he lean forward when talking to you and seem to pay attention when he doesn’t do the same for other women around the office? If yes, then he likes you. You should, however, note that some men are naturally flirty and tend to flirt with all women. You need to watch out for this. This kind of man can be flirty but have no interest in you.


​He Touches You

Most men tend to touch in a bid to connect with women they are interested in. If his hand touches you for longer than necessary, then there is a chance he has a crush on you. He may also lean in and hold your hand in his while talking to you. This is one of the signs he’s flirting at work.


He Leans In

If a man leans in with his shoulder to you when you’re having a conversation, there is a chance that he is into you. He is subconsciously flirting and focusing on you. If you notice he only does this with you and not with other women, then he is definitely flirting.


He Remembers What You Say

Does he take special interest in what you say and seem to remember jokes or stories you’ve told him before? Men tend to remember what a woman they’re flirting with says. They can’t help it and it’s like they’re laser focuses on everything she says and does.


He Asks Whether You’re Single

A confident guy will ask whether you are single if he has a crush on you. He wants to know whether you are available or not. Other guys will be more subtle about it and make statements such as “how come a girl like you is single...”. He is flirting.


Look for Blush

Some guys are awfully shy. For this reason, they will blush whenever they are in your presence. This is especially so if they like you a lot. When he blushes, he’s flirting with you. Note that blushing is not restricted to shy guys only.


He Twitches Nervously

If he fidgets, plays with his hair, randomly shifts in his seat, or grabs his ear, then he is nervous. He probably wants to flirt with you and doesn’t know how, or it may be because he wants to impress you.


He Keeps Checking You Out

Does he keep checking you out every time you walk past him or when you’re in the same room? Do his eyes wander up and down your body? Do he zones in on your breasts at some point – even for a second? He is interested in you, and he’s flirting.


He Tells You He’s Single

If he lets it slip that he’s single during casual conversation, he is probably hoping you’ll catch on. He might also throw in a line or two about his ex or his last relationship as a hint. This is one of the signs he’s flirting at work.


He Mentions the Things You Have In Common

If a man is flirting with you, he is likely to pick up on the things you have in common. He’ll zone in on them and tend to steer the conversation in that direction. This is a clear sign that he has interest in you.


He Pulls Out All Stops to Impress You

If the guy is constantly trying to make a good impression, then he might just be flirting with you. If he starts telling you about his feats and achievements, then that’s a sign. He might come off as showing off, but if he keeps it up, he’s definitely flirting with you.


He Likes Your Company

If he won’t leave your side and he’s constantly seeking you out, then it’s obvious he has a crush on you. This might come off as creepy, especially if you do not really like the guy. In this case, you should tell him off. If you think he’s kind of cute and charming, then you have him just where you want him.


His Eyes Sparkle

One of the telltale signs of a flirty conversation is when the eyes widen. If when he is talking to you and his eyes widen and become more expressive throughout the conversation, then this is one of the signs he's flirting at work with you and he is deeply attracted to you.


He Focuses on the Conversation

Does he excuse himself to pick a call whenever he gets one, or does he try to end the call immediately? If he tends to avoid picking calls when he's with you, or rush through a conversation when he meets someone he knows so that he can get back to talking to you, then he has a crush on you.


He Compliments You

If he's constantly paying you compliments regarding your dressing and your looks, then he probably likes you a lot. The man might also use exaggerated expressions to describe or compliment you.


He Gets Excited When Seeing You

Whenever you bump into him, he always seems more excited than normal. He also tries to prolong the conversation while you are not really best of friends.


He Gets Annoyed If Someone Cuts into the Conversation

If someone happens to cut into your conversation with him, he gets annoyed and sometimes acts rudely. This could one of the signs he’s flirting with you.


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