When someone leaves your life, whether they end your relationship, move away or they are no longer living, it can be difficult to deal with. That is you may wonder what to do when you miss someone to help stop the pain and misery, and still allow the person to get on with their life. The truth of the matter is that you must let that person go, and then spend time focusing on yourself in order to truly get back to your life. The time that you spend on yourself and the growth from this experience is going to help you to enjoy life and be a much happier person.

What to Do When You Miss Someone

1

Avoid hibernating in your home

One of the biggest issues that you will have with missing someone is when you lock yourself in your home and basically hibernate in your home. The worst way in how to deal with missing someone is to cut yourself off from outside activities. Chances are, while sitting at home, you are going to miss the person even more. That is why it is important to get out, even if it is only to go to the grocery or the gym.

2

Stay connected with friends

When wondering what to do when you miss someone, always remember that spending time with your friends is a great way to escape from the memory of someone else. Your friends are going to be there for you and this is one of the best methods for coping with missing someone. These friends are going to help get your mind off of what happened, and eventually allow you to find your true self again. Plus, they are the people that know you the best, so they may know how to get your mind off the person better than anyone.

3

Increase your brain power

If you have put off going to the new art gallery around the corner, or watching what is considered a “smart movie”, then take the time to do this now. You will find that through expanding your interests, even if you are trying something out that does not work in the end, is a great way to expand your horizons. You may not like everything that you try out, but your brain will expand despite not liking what you see. Try out new things that you may have once felt threatened about, such as a new art gallery, and simply see what there is to offer. Even though you may not like it, you still have expanded your brain.

4

Now is the time to quit coffee addictions and smoking

When you wonder what to do when you miss someone, it can be easy for you to become an avid coffee drinker and smoker, especially if you already did these things. However, now that the someone is gone from your life, it is the perfect time to quit these habits. Why is this? Basically, because going through the withdrawal and quitting of these habits can help to get your mind off of the person that you miss, and instead you are focusing on you, something that you need to do. In addition, you get the benefit of living a healthier life once you cut out the smoking.

5

See someone new

Even though you may miss someone, it is time to get back out there. This does not necessarily mean that you are going to start a serious relationship, and that is fine. But, you could meet some interesting people who turn into great friends, and you could have a lot of fun. The idea is that you are seeing that the world doesn’t stop turning even though you miss a certain someone in your life. And you never know, you may meet someone that is the perfect match for you when you get back out in the dating world.

6

Let the music say it for you

Many people who have missed someone in the past find that listening to music is a great way to deal with all those feelings. Take the time to listen to songs that speak about missing someone, or just songs that remind you of the person that is no longer in your life for whatever reason. However, remember not to do this constantly.

7

Email yourself your thoughts

This may sound strange, but it does work. When you were younger, you may have been told to keep a journal to help deal with emotions. But, as an adult, you often spend more time sitting at a computer, so why not journal your feelings and email these to yourself. It can be a great way to deal with those feelings, learn what triggers you may have for these feelings, and is the ultimately method for what to do when you miss someone. Anytime you feel the need to talk, simply jot down an email and send it to yourself with the feelings you are having.

8

Thank the person you are missing

Though you may initially be angry at the person who left you, you do need to look at what all that person has taught you or how they helped your life. This is where writing a thank you note can be helpful. Tell the person you miss just how much they meant to you, thank them for the good times that you two had, or if the person taught you something that has changed your life, let them know. This thank you letter is a way to close the relationship, and you are going to feel better for doing it this way. It is the ultimate end to what to do when you miss someone, as it provides closure.

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  • MakeleleJan.9 04:53
    Some helpful point that you've got here,But at the end it all depends on the individual to handle it. I am the kind of person who hides his feelings alot.I try not to show it. It's a bad idea,i know but most at times when i miss someone, it is usually very hard during the first few weeks. After that, i get over it and move on. Some i stay in touch and others i don't. Life goes on. There are many amazing persons and things to do and experience in the outside world.
  • Tori Jan.4 04:16
    Please help<my comment is like one down>
  • Tori Jan.4 04:14
    I miss my best friend because she goes to a boarding school that doesn't allow phones. I can only contact her in summer, winter break, and spring break. All I have of her is a bracelet that she broke when we were on a cruise together. Tonight I put it together again and it made me miss her so much again. Yesterday was the last day I will talk to her until spring.
  • AnnaDec.28 14:30
    Well I really liked this guy and I won't be able to see him cause his in boarding school and he loves this other girl .but last night before he went to new York buffola he was talking to me until 3 am and I have been liking him for years. And years. And last night he had his legs wrapped around mine and couldn't. Talk cause he saw how pretty my eye were. And he put his hand all over my lower back and lower.but his been loving that other girl since. The 3rd grade I don't know what to do and this morning. I didn't drop him to the airport or said goodbye cause I fell asleep.just thinking about him gets me upset cause. He has to go threw nonsense. But then that girl might have moved. On cause that was since 3 grade
  • EveDec.23 17:54
    I just miss my boyfriend our relationship is great It's just that when i see him, then one of us goes home, j miss him, and he doesn't have a phone so I text him through his moms phone and his moms at work right now so I can't text him. #relationshipproblems
  • PetiteDec.6 08:18
    I miss a man. He loves cat. He would probably save all stray cats he found. He bought food for my friends. He bought food for my family whenever he send me home. I've been so loyal to him and cherish his existence everyday. I've rejected all propose from other guy for him. I never ask him money or anything.. He felt waiting for me to graduate is like a century..whilst just hv a couple year left... He decides his marriage with someone else, in the middle of our relationships. I hv move on some how.. However, i can't help myself from jealousy when to think about childrens he got with someone else. I am breaking and torn.
  • Rakner Nov.29 15:02
    So there was this girl that I had a crush on for like half a year,she was my close friend's girlfriend.but had I a crush on her way before he was with her,I guess he was the one with the guts.I talked to her on a dare,so I tried to flirt,it was really obvious to her,but she played along.we just became friends ,5 months or so later,she broke up.i couldn't hold my feelings any longer ,so I told her.she politely declined.every now n then I bother just to ask how is she.normaly we use to talk a lot , but now it just seems so distant.im forcing myself not to talk to her anymore,but it's going slow and hard.everyday i think about her,which makes me said .almost everything reminds me about her,every song,scenery,movie,quote basically everything leads to me thinking about her.i still miss her ,but there is practically -3882828% of anything happening.So I guess it's time to burn bridges?
  • LaraNov.8 21:49
    Jazz!! Very worried to read your comment amd cant write to you personally? Please get help and support, talk to someone about your feelings. You need to see a counsellor, or doctor to get help xxx
  • BobbyOct.22 22:34
    I miss this girl who I had a crush on, but I never got the guts to talk to her. Now, I have moved away, and I don't see her anymore.
  • JazzOct.19 01:59
    Theres this girl i am inlove with. For 3 years of me only seeing pictures of her on social media i met her in person. Its weird how we met, we come from the same city, recently i moved to a new city hours away from home to live on a campus at my school. A few months go by and she pops up at my school and started going to school with me. I was so shy i couldnt talk to her without running away in fear lol. I finally grew the balls to speak to her, took me a while but soon enough we started dating. Our relationship got bad because i didnt like the way she talked to other people being flirtatious. So we broke it off. Now shes moved on pretty quickly about a day after we broke up and every day i have to see her and this other person in my face. Im trying to move on with someone else but its hard after i fell so hard for this girl i crushed on 3 years straight. I want to leave but if i do i will have no home to go to because im not from this city and i know nobody at all. I have not the first clue what i should do to move on. I cry every night because i miss her so much. Seeing this girl i fell inlove with kissing somebody else is so terribly heartbreaking i can honestly say i do not want to be alive anymore. Suicide is the easiest way out. I cant run away and go home, i have no home or family here. I cant hide from her because this campus is so small everywhere i turn shes right there, i cant imagine us being friends when i still have to see her and this other person together all the time. I cant live like this anymore i feel so muh hatred for myself.
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